Who can foster?

Foster carers come from all backgrounds and bring a wide range of life and work experiences. They receive training and support to help them develop the skills to meet the needs of children in care.

Just as there is diversity in fostered children, foster carers need to come from a variety of backgrounds and have different life experiences, skills and qualities to help meet the needs of children and young people in foster care. There are some common criteria that most fostering services expect from you:

  • to be at least 21 years-old (although by law you can apply to foster from 18)
  • to have a spare bedroom big enough for a young person to live in
  • to be residing in the UK
  • to be able to give the time to care for a child or young person, often on a full-time basis.
If you don't meet any of the above, please have an open conversation with the fostering service you are applying to as there are a number of factors they will explore with you to inform their assessment to ensure you can provide care and continuity to children.  

What makes me proud to foster is watching my foster child achieve what others thought she wouldn't.

           Claire, foster carer.


Other factors to consider

Other factors which will be taken into account will include:

  • Your health – are you fit and able to foster for now and the foreseeable future?
  • Your financial security – can you afford to foster?
  • Your home – is it safe for a child or young person?
  • Your friends and family – are there people who can support you to foster?
  • Your past – whether you have lived abroad and any previous convictions.
  • Your experience with children and young people – through family, work, or volunteering.

Crucially, any fostering service will want to know more about you. Do you want to work with children and young people who have often had difficult starts in life? Do you have the ability to support them, nurture them, communicate with them, advocate on their behalf and include them as part of your family? Are you willing to work as part of a team, develop your skills and qualities through training and learning and have the resilience to stay strong in times of difficulty?

It's so rewarding seeing the children change from being frightened of the future to believing they have a future.

           Catherine, foster carer.

Fostering myths

People often rule themselves out of fostering because of the many myths surrounding fostering, such as 'I can't foster if I'm single' or 'I can't foster if I'm gay' or 'I can't foster if I don't have my own children'.

Check out our 'Can I foster if...? page to help dispel some of these myths.

What next?

If you think fostering is for you, take a look at the process and some helpful questions to ask when applying to foster. Alternatively, read through our FAQs if you are still unsure if you can foster. You can also use our find a fostering service page to find one near you.

Becoming a foster carer is the best thing I’ve ever done. Every day I’m helping young people to turn their lives around.

Alan, foster carer for over 20 years.

Still not sure? Have a look at our could you foster video, to see how you can transform a child's life.

STILL not sure if fostering is for you? Why don't you read more about what it's like being a foster carer Or how about some real-life foster carer experiences, courtesy of Lucy Stevens' ongoing series of blogs, as well as best-selling author Cathy Glass's accounts of fostering?

Fostering is the best thing we've ever done. We've loved and cared for some fabulous children who've gone on to flourishing in their lives.

           Paul and Michael, foster carers.

Convinced? Here's what you can do next:

Read about the journey to approval

Search for a fostering service near you

Check out the FAQs

Become a member of The Fostering Network

If, after considering becoming a foster carer, you don't think fostering is for you, but would still like to help transform fostered children's lives, please make a donation to The Fostering Network. Your money helps make fostering the best it can be, and you can find out how here.